We must learn to manage not only our victories but also the challenges that come our way, including criticism and judgment. The proverb, “Let those who speak ill of me do it because fallen people often do fallen things,” reminds us that we should handle hardships with grace. It could be an indication of our fortitude, inner strength, and dedication to moral principles. In this article, I will discuss on The Chenab Times about how to respond gracefully to criticism, starting with a few lines of poetry.
“Ilm ki ibtida hai hangama
Ilm ki inteha hai khamoshi”
Silence Is Wisdom
Silence with intention may be a very effective reaction. Choosing silence is a sign of self-control, tranquility within, and a reluctance to participate in pointless conversations that might spread negativity.
Personal Experience
From my own observations, beauty isn’t just about outward appearance. It’s about one’s inner thoughts. True beauty comes from within, from a person’s inner self. So, the next time someone criticizes you, understand that it might reflect their own bitterness and negativity. Consider what they might be harboring inside their hearts. Keep your own heart and inner self pure, and you’ll be able to counter negativity. This is based on my personal experience and observations. People sometimes hold good thoughts for someone, but they can quickly turn negative. These are the kind of people whose hearts lack goodness and are filled with malice. They are the ones who harbor bitterness inside. Be an example of someone who doesn’t hold ill thoughts for others. Your inner beauty lies in your thoughts. If you harbor negativity towards someone, it means negativity exists within you. Get rid of that negativity and start harboring good thoughts for others. That reflects your true beauty. Coming in anger and falling into ignorance only reveal your weakness.
Having Good Company
Not everyone is a friend at every step, but having a few true and good friends by your side can make all the difference. When people spread negativity, let them be. Focus on bettering yourself; that’s the best response for them in every moment.
How to Handle Criticism
Criticism can be difficult to handle, but Ibn Al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy upon him) said, “Sadness weakens the heart and diminishes determination and wanting to go forward. And there is nothing more beloved to the Shaytaan than the sadness of a believer.” For this reason, be happy, optimistic, and think well about Allah. So, responding to criticism with compassion can change the entire situation. Instead of taking it personally, recognize that the critic might be struggling with their own issues or emotions.
By responding with empathy, you show that you can think beyond their words. This not only diffuses tension but also opens the door for more productivity from you.
By transforming criticism into an opportunity for compassion, you can create a more supportive and harmonious environment for yourself and others. So, the next time you face criticism, choose to respond with compassion and see the difference.
Embracing Allah’s Presence in the Face of Criticism
حُسنُ الظَّنِّ رَاحَةُ القَلْبِ وسلامة الدين
Positive thinking is a comfort for the heart and security for religion. Everyone will experience sadness and some of the derivative emotions that come with it. However, verse 9:40 of the Quran teaches us that Allah is with us in every situation. Therefore, believers can be very happy and optimistic, because He is the Most Powerful and Merciful. Moreover, He knows all things, including the problems we face.
So, whenever you encounter such criticism, look at it through the guidelines of the Quran, and you’ll handle it beautifully.
Conclusion
When dealing with negativity, it’s key to stay true to yourself and respond with kindness and positivity. This way, you stay aligned with goodness and attract positive vibes and blessings. It’s all about spreading good vibes. In conclusion, when faced with negativity from others, it’s crucial to maintain inner purity and respond with kindness and righteousness. By doing so, you align yourself with principles of goodness and virtue, ultimately attracting divine blessings and rewards from Allah.
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Salman Wani is a contributor at The Chenab Times. He is currently pursuing a Master’s degree in Political Science at Jammu University.
